Interestingly, a study on the age gap relationships of age indicated that the cases in which the woman was older than the husband showed a higher than usual proportion of good fits as well as those in which the husband was away eight years older. However, these same couples also showed the highest proportion of poor settings.
It was found that the happiest group had twelve husbands and younger wives, but women were happy from four to ten years older than their husbands. However, the happiest couples are those in which the husband was three to five years more. So you understand. Here are some useful principles:
1. If the man is of the same age or a little older than the girl, there will be no particular problem of the appropriate age.
2. If the girl is a little older, there will be no particular problem, unless one or the other feels sensitive about it. The only question is: "How do you feel about that?"
3. As people get older, age differences become less important. All things being equal, there is less difference between a woman and a man fifty to seventy, than between a girl of twenty and a man of forty.
4. When you are relatively young and one to twelve years, the couple should carefully consider the following issues:
In these relationships, the age difference, there may be real differences in interest in physical activities. If man is the greatest, this may not be too important. A man of thirty-five can play as good a game of golf or tennis and swimming as well as a girl of twenty.
In fact, the age difference can actually match more evenly. A problem more age gap relationship will be the scene where their interests lie.
Young people often want to walk at dances, parties, clubs and similar activities. When people become more these activities are much less attractive and can, if well delivered, becoming bored.
If the man is much older and his wife and do what he wants, he can fail in a phase of experience which, rightly or wrongly, always be sorry. If you do what he likes, he crawls on the same experience twice, maybe after he is ready to move on.
A compromise can work. Secondly, it can result in a type of social life that is satisfactory for none of them. A deeper phase of the problem relates to your attitude towards life. For problems regarding experience less age difference seems much simpler than they really are.
Young people are very apt to think that the older generation must be knaves or fools, or have abolished long ago war, poverty, social conflicts and mosquitoes.
The elderly, but people often find the enthusiasms of youth amusing. They can tolerate in their children, but do not want in a partner. If the age difference is so great that she refers to her husband as an old fogy, and the husband thinks of his wife as a mere child who spends too much time and effort on things that do not matter the situation is favorable for a successful marriage.
However, the fact that the relations of the age difference in risk does not necessarily mean you should not be attempted. A young woman of twenty-five he married a man twice his age firmly stated that he preferred to marry a man of first-class fifty to a man of the third order of thirty.
There could be other benefits to such a union. The girl who marries an older man has a better chance of knowing what it is. In all cases, the most important factor is not the age, but maturity.
Young people are more mature than most of his contemporaries may actually find to be the most agreeable companion. However, as in all the relations of the age difference, the preference for a much older partner should be examined with the greatest care.
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